Le Fleur De Lis Current Events


R.O.P.E.Social for Thu, Nov 06, '14 at La Fleur De Lis

“Presented by Goddess V and Hosted by Le Fleur De Lis”

Thursday, November 06, 2014 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM 

Le Fleur De Lis

2021 Rancho Dr, suite 4, Redlands

Donation $5-$10 (each $5 will get you a raffle ticket)

Please join us for November's R.O.P.E.Social First Thursday of November (Nov 6th) 2014 7pm til 10pm

Contact Goddess V for Directions, or to RSVP

These are not classes. This is a social event geared towards Hands on practice and socialization.

These events are opportunities to get together with other people just like you who like rope and the things it does for us. You are welcome to share things you've learned, you're welcome to listen in on others and what they have learned. You're welcome to just use the space and practice things you've learned, are learning or just don't have the opportunity elsewhere to practice. It's always a great time to just "hang out" with other people who enjoy the aspects of rope.

Hygiene Before the Scene Friday November 7th, 2014 at Le Fleur De Lis

 "Presented by MK's KinkED

Friday, November 07, 2014

7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

Le Fleur De Lis

2021 Rancho Dr, Suite 4, Redlands

Ever been to a club and or private play party and think OMG GROSS? Yes I think we all have at least once. I really want to touch on the importance of hygiene and how it can save lives.

We will cover everything from Cleanliness, Prep, Setup, Safety and Diseases. This is a class you will not want to miss. Just ask yourself this simple question. What is the VALUE of your health?

Look forward to sharing with you…

$10.00 for the Class and add only $5.00 for Members and $10.00 for Non-Members to stay and play and party all night.

If you just come for the party it's $15.00 Members $20.00 Non-Members
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Le Fleur De Lis After Party

“After Class Stay for the Party”

Friday, November 7th, 2014

9:00 PM - 1:00 AM

$10.00 for the Class and add only $5.00 for Members and $10.00 for Non-Members to stay and play and party all night.

If you just come for the party it's $15.00 Members $20.00 Non-Members.

For more information please Email Brieanna at: Info@LeFleurDeLis.Org

Le Fleur De Lis 2021 Rancho Dr, Suite 4, Redlands


Negotiations 101.2 Class & BDSM Play Party

Saturday, November 08, 2014

“Presented by Master Talon”

Saturday, November 08, 2014 · 5:00 PM –11:59 PM 

Le Fleur de Lis

2021 Rancho Dr, suite 4, Redlands

Cost: $15 for members and $20 for non-member

Description:       

Please join us for Advanced Negotiation. (What, How, Who, Where, Why)

*If you didn't attend Basic Negotiation: The dance before the party, no problem. We will do a quick outline of the Basic class for those that didn't attend and as a refresher for those that did.*

Why it is important to negotiate

Physical and mental health

Prior experience, in general and in specifics

The difference between hard and soft limits

Setting safe words or other ways of stopping a scene

Determining what aftercare will be and whom does it.

Whom is supplying equipment.

Locations for the scene.

Advanced Negotiation will take the Basic outline and break it down into sub-categories. Digging deeper into what everything really means and how to use that information. Both parties of the negotiation are equal to each other at the time of negotiation. No power exchange has taken place. Now is the time to be very clear on your desires and limits. Your success in the scene depends on how well you negotiate.

Topics to be covered include:

Breaking down the outline into sub-categories

How to ask for what you want

How to listen

What did you mean when you said ______?

Moving the negotiation your direction

How to recognize that someone is moving the negotiation out of your comfort zone

Examples of good negotiations gone bad

Debriefing after the scene. Did your negotiation work?

Filling out a Negotiation Sheet

Negotiating a Contract

This class is recommended for everyone. Bring your questions, there will be time for questions and possibly some actual negotiations.

Master Talon is a Pansexual Dominant with 20 years experience in the lifestyle. He has spent the last 18 years in the community practicing his skills concerning negotiation, impact play, single tails, tandem bullwhips, rope suspension and knife play including straight razors. He has worked with individuals and couples new to the lifestyle as well as the experienced players to provide a safe, fun and fulfilling experience.

Class & Party $15.00 Members $20.00 Non-Members.

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Foot Job Friday November 14th, 2014

Friday November 14, 2014 --"FootJob Friday" Footworship / FootJob party in the Inland Empire, ca -9pm to 2am --Exclusively Feeturing the girls of the world famous "FootJob Virgins" website & film series!

ANYTHING GOES as long as its CONSENSUAL -Yes Means, YESSSS!!


Cock and Ball Play Saturday, November 15th, 2014 at Le Fleur De Lis

“Presented by Mike VH”

Saturday, November 15, 2014

 5:00 PM – 7:00 PM 

This fun workshop will share techniques/skills for inflicting good, cock and ball play! Workshop will focus on pleasure and safety for the participants.

The instructor will discuss tools and toys, safety and technique. There will be discussion on "CBT" as Well as "CBP", roles, power exchange, Dominance, control, sensation and a Q&A opportunity.

Mike VH has been active in BDSM/Kink for 35 years and the organized community for about 16. He has taught classes and done demos for OCLA, Avatar LA, Threshold, Lair de Sade, ClubX, PSLOD, presented for LA, San Diego and Palm Springs and Long Beach pride festivals, And spoken in college sexuality classes at USC, CSULB, OCC, UC Riverside and other colleges around California.

His favorite classes are flogging, bondage, CBT, wax and electro play.

Mike and his partner of 21 years live in Redlands

$10.00 for the Class 

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Electricity Play: Introduction to TENS unit play 
“ Presented by Bishop Darkk and MizNightshade.”
Saturday, November 22, 2014 · 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM  

 
$15 for members and $20 for non-members

Description:
Have you ever wanted your bottom to experience something completely different from whips, paddles, floggers and dripping wax?


Have you wanted to make them jump and twitch on your command and the simple push of a button or twist of a knob?


Well, until you have experienced the sensations offered by TENS electrical play, then you won't know what you have been missing.


TENS 101 workshop (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation)
Better living through the misuse of technology at it's very finest.


Come and learn how to put TENS to use serving you, as well as how to use one on your bottom safely with best effect.


Topics to be covered,


emphasis on safety
basic understanding of how a TENS unit works
how to torment the bottom of your choice without dropping a bundle
History: 1920's to present day.
What is Violet Wand vs. TENS?
how electrode type and placement affects the results you want.
Hands on demonstration period. After the class put your new knowledge to the test by using a few different TENS units, and better understand the differences and strengths of various models.
Bishop Dark is a Dominant with 22 years experience in the lifestyle. He fell into the Leather Scene in the mid-90's and after that, it was goodbye vanilla and he never looked back. Bishop has been giving workshops, spreading the gospel of BDSM, using and building TENS units and creating TENS toys for over fifteen years.


You have heard some people make the defensive claim; "Well, it's not like we are going out and recruiting the public for this!" Well, I am. And now I'm recruiting people to join the ranks of TENS fanatics everywhere who embrace the power of electricity for fun and torment. --Bishop Darkk


So, bring your popcorn, candy and favorite sodas because our workshop will definitely be more entertaining than a movie, and not as expensive.


Memberships to Le Fleur de Lis can be purchased at the door


class 8-10pm & play 9pm-2am


Event Page: Saturday, November 22, 2014 · 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM  
Location:
La Fleur de Lis
2021 Rancho Dr, suite 4, Redlands  
Cost: $15 for members and $20 for non-members
Description:
Have you ever wanted your bottom to experience something completely different from whips, paddles, floggers and dripping wax?


Have you wanted to make them jump and twitch on your command and the simple push of a button or twist of a knob?


Well, until you have experienced the sensations offered by TENS electrical play, then you won't know what you have been missing.


TENS 101 workshop (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation)
Better living through the misuse of technology at it's very finest.


Come and learn how to put TENS to use serving you, as well as how to use one on your bottom safely with best effect.


Topics to be covered,


emphasis on safety
basic understanding of how a TENS unit works
how to torment the bottom of your choice without dropping a bundle
History: 1920's to present day.
What is Violet Wand vs. TENS?
how electrode type and placement affects the results you want.
Hands on demonstration period. After the class put your new knowledge to the test by using a few different TENS units, and better understand the differences and strengths of various models.
Bishop Dark is a Dominant with 22 years experience in the lifestyle. He fell into the Leather Scene in the mid-90's and after that, it was goodbye vanilla and he never looked back. Bishop has been giving workshops, spreading the gospel of BDSM, using and building TENS units and creating TENS toys for over fifteen years.


You have heard some people make the defensive claim; "Well, it's not like we are going out and recruiting the public for this!" Well, I am. And now I'm recruiting people to join the ranks of TENS fanatics everywhere who embrace the power of electricity for fun and torment. --Bishop Darkk


So, bring your popcorn, candy and favorite sodas because our workshop will definitely be more entertaining than a movie, and not as expensive.


Memberships to Le Fleur de Lis can be purchased at the door



class 8-10pm & play 9pm-2am

Event Page:  https://fetlife.com/events/290666
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Dungeon Etiquette 101 & Play Party

“ Presented by MsDiana”

Saturday, December 06, 2014 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM 

     

We learn manners and etiquette as children in order to behave properly in a variety of situations. Whether it's at school, church or at a party, we are encouraged to act in ways which will maximize our interactions. As adults, some of us forget that these courtesies exist. Or we become shy about asking for guidance when the perception is that we should already (or automatically) know. In some situations, NOT knowing can be met with less than a positive reception.

Let's take a look at some of these courtesies, as they apply in a dungeon setting. Granted, "rules" vary from venue to venue, but there are some standard (and almost universal) rules we can apply. And in doing so, we can avoid the pitfalls, the social "faux pas" and increase the "plus factor" potential for the encounter.

In the lifestyle for nearly 40 years, Ms. Diana is the Coordinator of The Threshold Society, on the board of the Los Angeles Leather Coalition, and an Executive Committee member of Southern California Leather Woman. She has presented across the country, in Hawaii, and in the United Kingdom on Alternative Lifestyles, and is the Founder and originator of "The Tactile Celebration - A Sensory and Sensuous Journey".

An educator for more than 47 years, her degrees include a BA in Theatre and an MS in Psychology (she continues her counseling and lifestyle coaching today). She's been invited to numerous panel presentations at colleges, universities, and organizations around California and outside of the state and views these as opportunities to educate and correct myths and misconceptions, and to give back to the community. Education seems to be the dominant theme in her life. She has judged leather contests locally. In addition, she was given the Person of the Year award by the Los Angeles Leather Coalition at the Southland Honors of 2009.




Come in and join the fun.
Book your party with Le Fleur De Lis.

Contact Brieanna at: Info@LeFleurDeLis.Org